Mahak Hamid's blog

Insult, Snigger, Snubbing, abusing.. these are all the synonyms of each other. some are extremes and some are subtle, but the category remains the same. these terms are as old as language, but how they came into being.  When we are angry we direct our rage towards something, usually our mouth. we shout and insult people. we also insult others for the sake of fun or to get attention. Do we ever think what our insults do to someone? In the extreme cases the victim can take our insult seriously and will get seriously hurt. In second case our insult will not affect them at all. In second case we will be the one who doesn't have guts to keep our dignity.  We all are educated individuals, we can read, write and learn. we are respected members of the society. Doesn't it all teach us that we should behave in a respected way? I have seen alot of people insulting celebrities on facebook, twitter or whatever. Do you really think that the celebrity will think about your petty little...

Hey everyone, well I am here, writing again because someone insisted me to write. he told me that whether I write how to make up properly or about friendship I should write. I weren't writing because I thought I 've lost myself somewhere. as you all know that the mental and emotional states of the writer affects their writing. and when you lose reasons to live so also lose the reasons to write.. well I am fine now :),, and I am back .. so I will write and nag you all with my posts..  we all rise then we fall... we love and we loose.. we fight and we win.. everyone struggles deeply in their life but is it really our purpose of living? don't you all think that we are just going with the flow. living and living and trying to survive.. and in the war of survival we leave all the things behind our emotions, our heart, our relations and the passions. what are we really doing for our own selves. a time will come when we will just become a deadbody and will be buried away, we ...

There was once a Man of Allah, who went to a place to preach God's teaching. The people of that place got offended by his teachings and threw rocks on him. He got badly wounded but He never complained, never spoke ill of them. Yes, He was the Prophet( Peace Be Upon Him) of God who was sent as a Blessing for whole world.  He never hurt anyone in the world although people treated him harshly. He was the one who freed the murderer of his daughter. Now when I think about him, I ask myself what really was his heart made of? how could he held so much pain in his heart and remain a blessing for the whole world? Did he eat different food from us? Was his body made up of stones so he couldn't feel pain? Was he made up of different elements?  My heart always replies with a NO! He was a human, a fragile human with all human strengths and weaknesses. when his skin got cut, it bled the same coloured blood. he breath the same air. The food he ate doesnt comes from heaven; it was t...

Note: this piece of writing is for only those technology freaks that do not have time to hear the humans around them.. they are so wrapped up in their own world that they do not see the tear of the ones who craves for their attention, who live for them... we humans are never vulnerable or breakable.. we assume ourselves the toughest ones.. but we all are alike when it comes to love and relations.. we have the hearts of glass who shreds into pieces when we feel disconnected to the people around us.. and what one live for ?.. as Darwin said we struggle, we adapt to our surrounding just to continue our generations; for the survival of our specie.. why we build castles of wealth? why we make pillars of fortune? so that we will be able to survive.. but is wealth enough..? will wealth get you the euphoria of losing yourselves? or satisfy you in the time when you need someone to become your strength.? why we crush on others, flirt, lose our hearts, get marries, have babies, build friendsh...

Human comes from humanity or humanity comes from human, one just cannot take one thing from the other. the basic framework of human comprises of a heart , mind and a body. some from the past said that we have only soul, mind and body and some says conscious , unconscious and subconscious. whatever you call it we all knows that we have 3 forces inside us, one which is pure, beautiful, nurturing; second is materialistic, selfish , egoistic and the third which takes care of the rules and regulations formed by ourselves and the beings around us. We all experience these forces, are bound by them and are directed towards our motives by them. These forces also defines the our motives and makes us aware of them. Every one of us has the same structure. lets call these forces pure self, self-consciousness self and social self ( for the sake of convenience) so moving on to my point  I would say that these forces have dimensions i.e. one can lie on the high value of pure self and low on ...

Being a Girl is the biggest blessing i have ever had in my life. Every day i listen to news the rape cases, the crimes, the bad side of world. i also have always feared that world would hurt me because i am fragile, i am weak because i am woman. Every single thing i read or hears complains that its Men world. its cruel , its horrible and men only use women for their own goals. but, seriously is it really so? I mean there may be bad side but there is a good side too. God hasn't the one who created bad side. He only created good. When I feared the world; he gave me protectors who would do everything to save me from getting hurt and those protectors were that very MEN about whom the whole world complains that "Men are not to be trusted" Blah blah blah.. May be there exists an illiterate society where women may not be respected but my points is that there also exists beautiful place where they are cherished , they are loved and respected. because God created Adam as a fa...

For some people Life is the most complicated thing ever but its as simple as breathing.. Its just a matter a choice.. A bet to take and a game to win.. it will always be a matter of choice between a human and his Creator. In the ideal and right way one can lose their life, their love and their desires but they cannot afford to lose the relation with the creator because their is no life without the one who created you.. the one who will be there when everything will rot away.. its just HIS game.. either He wins or you lose.. strange thing when He wins you wins too.. and its the sad reality of life you cant ever have the things you want the most in the world... even if they wanted to be yours too because He doesn't want them too.. and when he doesn't then nothing in the world can get you those things.. and these  little tests wont stop.. sometimes HE will test you by taking something away.. and sometimes by giving something you wanted... and will see whether if you stick by His ...